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Memory Box

Memory Box
Location: Port Shepstone, KWAZULU-NATAL, South Africa
Category: Health
Published: 16 May 2008
Progress:
33% funded
   
Rating:
46 Ratings
HIV/AIDS is having a devastating effect on families in SA today and children are paying a heavy price: they are experiencing multiple losses as their circles of care break down. These children are highly traumatized by the loss of parents - many of them witness the physical deterioration, even the actual deaths. Ordinarily, children’s natural bonds with their parents provide them with their personal, social & cultural identity. After the trauma of death many children face severe emotional instability; the risks include withdrawal, destructive behaviour, learning difficulties & depression. A solution showing significant positive results in increasing resilience in affected children is engaging the children in a memory work programme. A Memory Box workshop develops the children’s psychosocial well-being, so essential for their survival. Also, the children whose needs have been met can help by providing emotional support to siblings & peers; they will also take part in other activities encouraging them to realise their full potential. The essence of memory work rests on the idea that it is good for the child to know his family story, however painful, on condition that this history is recounted in a warm, non-judgmental setting. They access this knowledge through memory & for the grieving process to unfold in a meaningful way the children’s perceptions & feelings need to be validated by supporting adults. The main aim of this intervention is to provide AIDS orphans with life skills that enhance their resilience so they cope better in life. A 5-day Memory Box workshop is planned for July 2008; 15 children will participate under the supervision of 2 qualified staff. Transport will be provided to & from their homes to a community hall where the workshop is held. All materials (Memory Boxes, paper, pencils, glue, paints…), Duduza dolls, photographs, & 2 meals/day will be provided. The children are identified by our specialised Children’s Team, Social Work Dept & ICHC teams.

GEDACHTNISBOX / MEMORY BOX - blog nr. 14

by Fiona M., created on 30 September 2008 at 08:45 AM

Hello everybody! Today I am going to talk about another Memory Box workshop activity, “RIVER OF LIFE”. The discussion will include what the objectives are and how we aim to achieve them (with acknowledgements to Sinomlando, Philipe Denis, and Dominique Mamet). Objective: The facilitators help the children to become aware of the changes which have affected their lives and help them to make sense of these changes, without minimising the pains and disruptions they have gone through. Task: Drawing and presenting rivers of life. Method: 1. Introducing the theme The facilitators tell the children that the topic of the session is the river of life. The river of life describes the succession of events which have marked the lives of the children (e.g. pregnancy of the mother, birth, baptism, first day at school, a trip to town, visit of the father, sickness and death of the mother, move to the grandmother’s place). By way of example, the facilitator leading the exercise shows that he/she also has a river of life. 2. River of life The facilitators distribute papers and crayons to the children. The children are invited to draw a river showing all the major events of their lives. Alternatively they can draw a series of boxes in which they draw significant events of their lives. 3. Group sharing The facilitators invite the children to comment, one by one, on their rivers of life, explaining all the significant events which have marked their lives. The facilitators record each child’s story on paper and at the end of the exercise the children paste their stories into their Hero Books. By the end of this session the children should be able to identify the significant events of their lives and to arrange them chronologically. Come on, potential supporters… make a real difference in the life of a child and donate now! Thank you. MEMORY BOX – blog nr.15 will introduce another staff member, Thabile Jwara, from the Children’s Team… keep reading! Best regards, Fiona Mennell Ps. Have you told all your friends and family about this project?

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